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HER vs Scruff

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HER

Dating and community app for lesbian, bisexual, and queer women.

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Scruff

Dating and social app for gay, bi, and trans men — especially bears and their fans.

HERScruff
Overall RatingNo ratings yetNo ratings yet
PricingFree / PremiumFree / Premium
CategoryLGBTQ+LGBTQ+
Best ForLGBTQ+ womenGay, bi, and trans men
Available InGlobalGlobal
User ReviewsNone yetNone yet

About HER

HER is the largest dating and social app built for lesbian, bisexual, and queer women. Beyond dating, HER functions as a community platform with events, groups, and feeds for LGBTQ+ women to connect. The app is safe and inclusive, with gender identity and pronoun options. HER Premium unlocks unlimited likes, profile boosts, and advanced search filters. It has a strong community feel that goes beyond just romantic matching.

About Scruff

Scruff is one of the most popular gay dating apps in the world, with a particularly strong following among bears, cubs, and the men who love them — though it welcomes all gay, bi, and trans men. With over 15 million members across 180 countries, it has a truly global reach. Scruff offers a grid-based discovery screen, travel features for finding connections abroad, and Scruff Venture for connecting with guys in other cities. The app also has an events section for LGBTQ+ events worldwide. Scruff Pro unlocks advanced filters and unlimited matches.